April 18, 2008

"Wh" is for Whatacrazylife!



I had a pretty strict schedule set up for myself today, but the blog was calling to me like the fourth child I'm not quite ready for. Thanks to those who gave me gentle kicks in the buns to post something again - you let me know you care. :)
It was awesome having Kyle here. I warned him that the trip might be a letdown because we had built it up so high in our heads. The first week was great, lovey-dovey, family time. The second week was pretty much back to normal (playing paper/rock/scissors over who has to change the diaper or take out the trash). I was sad to see him go and I even contemplated just packing the suitcases and flying back with him. In the end, I decided that letting G finish this year of Kindergarten can only be a good thing and I'm not quite sure how my job would feel about that; so until we square that crucial detail away, I'm sticking it out solo.
We had fun for my birthday. We went to dinner and then saw Juno. The only theatre we saw it playing at was a regular Harkins. Weird that we still had to pay full price for it when it was coming out on DVD in just a couple of week, but it was the ONLY movie I wanted to see out of our options, so we paid and enjoyed it. Kyle even got me a great pair of jeans for my birthday. (Okay, he really wanted to get me sunglasses, but I detoured us through the jeans instead. :) Thanks hubby!)
Guthrie has progressed so much since he started school here. His school is big on the Spalding Method, which I honestly had never heard of until now. There are some things you just don't think to look into until you're slapped in the face with it, right? His first few weeks at school, we could tell we had a lot of work to do to catch him up to the class. He had to learn the phonogram cards. I didn't realize what they were called, but this is my exact memory of learning in Mrs. Lindsay's class in Hibbard. (Mel Rigby, do you remember that too??? She would flash the cards to us and the we, as a class, would say all of the sounds that letter could make?? Maybe it wasn't Mrs. Lindsay??) Anyway, there are 70 of them, and at first he was at around 25/70 correct. Now, he easily remembers all 70, both verbally and written. His spelling tests are coming home with 100% and he's breezing through is math. I'm pretty proud of him and VERY impressed with the school and teacher. Of course he loves it, too. :)
Adeline has adjusted to being home with me again. I thought she would go crazy, but she has been able to spend a lot of time with Ainsley, which maybe is good thing. Sometimes they fight like crazy and I want to kill one or both of them. Other time, they can be really sweet together. They'll probably always remember this weird time in their childhood that they both lived with Grandma for a little while.
Sullivan is doing great! He's talking so much and starting to say funny little phrases. He is obsessed with these $1 dinosaur figures I got at Target. He carries two of them around at all times and even insists that they sleep with him. For nap times, which used to be hard, I just lay him down with his water, blanket and 2 completely uncuddly plastic dinosaurs. We don't hear a peep from him. He loves to say, "I lub you, mommy" to me in the middle of the night. I think he's become rather used to having his crib in my room and we'll probably have to go through an adjustment when we get back to our own house. His newest phrase is "That's right!" This morning we pulled up to the gym and I told him we were going to go play with toys. He jumps out of my arms and says, "That's right, mommy!," then runs to the door ahead of me. He seems slightly confused having Ashley around so much. He calls me mommy, and then will turn around and address her as "mama." It took us a while to realize that he was consistently doing it -but I guess he thinks that is her name.
Kyle is studying away. He is 2/3 through his OB/Gyn rotation and had some cool/sad/scary experiences. He assisted on a few C-sections, witnessed many more, and saw some sad miscarriages, stillbirths and sexual assault traumas. He said that the whole time he was at the hospital, he was making mental notes of things to tell me about the way they do the baby business in Mexico. I get fired up about Obstetrics in the US, but even more so in Mexico; so that was fun conversation.
As for me, I'm trying my hardest to NOT go crazy. I usually keep my cool for a little while and then find that something completely rediculous will send me over the edge. A few times, I have even surprised myself at the volumes I can reach with my yelling. I know my family, that maybe used to have a little respect for my parenting ways, have had their eyes opened to my truly fragile psyche. :) Hopefully they will all still love me and give me a second chance when the madness has settled down. One good thing about crazy schedules, three busy kids, a job on the side and hecticity all around me (yup that's a word) - its making the time fly by. How the world did Friday get here so soon???
I've been checking in with everyon's blogs, even though I've neglected my own. Its a terrible side effect of working on the computer for hours a day. The thought of sitting on the computer some more for my downtime is a total turn-off. :p
TGIF!

6 comments:

Serin said...

:o :o :o you posted!

I will now pick up my jaw off the floor (or my belly, as the case may be) so that I can comment.

Do you know what you are doing next semester? Or is it next year? Is Kyle transferring? I want to hear MX OB stories! :p

Yelling... yeah fun stuff. Some days I'm afraid Beamer won't recognize my voice unless I'm yelling.

Sullivan sounds so completely adorable! I love when they say "I wub you" or ask for a kiss <3

I know what you mean about Addie/Ainsley. Tanner and Ronan do the same thing. Drives me batty!

Yay for Guthie! I can't believe all the things they are teaching Kindergarteners these days! Does he remember any Spanish?

I'm glad you had a good birthday. :) How was the movie? I think I have heard of it, but the name is all I know.

:-*

Dusty said...

Hanna, you are such a trooper. I don't think I could survive without Tim coming home every night. I really would love to see you and the kids one of these days. Maybe we could set something up. Maybe I should just call you! Hang in there!

Genny said...

I'm so glad you posted! I've been thinking about you and wondering how things are going. What does next year hold? Have you thought that far ahead yet? I'd love to hear MX OB stories someday, too. Nate starts OB in 2 weeks and he's petrified--lol. I really don't know how anyone chooses that career path...it seems *so* high stress!
Yay for Guthrie's kindergarden progress, Sully's talking, and Addie's memories of her time with Ainsley at Grandma's house. Odd as this transitional time may seem someday, I'm sure the memories will be fun. I hope you're getting some good "me" time somewhere, even if it's not on the computer. ;)
And...you left out a *crucial* detail--What kind of jeans??!! ;)

Tanya Leigh said...

Happy belated birthday! I'm happy Kyle got to come visit :) Man, I was reading Becky's blog about her Mexican OB dr. lecturing her about her "unacceptable" weight-gain (when she looks TOO thin for being DUE) ... oh man. I think you rubbed off on me LOTS, cuz it bugs, BIG-TIME when I hear dumb things like that (and I would probably be ill if I heard Kyle's stories)

I would love to meet up sometime soon - whaddya think? :)

abby said...

Glad you posted again! You are so brave for doing the single mom thing for awhile. I would be an absolute wreck. Your kids are so cute. Do you know what you're doing in the fall?

Jill said...

I am so glad you got a new blog up. You guys sound like you are all so busy. I miss you guys. Some days are really hard for me and I really miss my family being around. But I am lucky to have my neighbors. She has been the best.